My Grandaddy, my Mom's Dad, used to always say, "Give people their flowers while they're living." He was a passionate preacher and hard-working patriarch who did not take no mess. He lived by strong spiritual truths and convictions and he held up the plumb line for others as well. Before I tell you about the flowers scenario, I want to make sure you know that my Grandaddy was gangster. Seriously. He was too legit to quit decades before M.C. Hammer was even born. Let me share a few gems from the treasure chest of memories:
When hoodlums vandalized our church, he got on the news with his shotgun and said he would shoot the people if they came back. He was not joking. And he may or may not have locked and loaded his shotgun during the interview...
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He sang loud and changed the key of the song whensoever he pleased. We were song-jacked in church all the time. And like idiots, we would continue to start out singing congregational hymns in the key of G only to be redirected to the key of C whenever he decided to come in singing, which was usually around the second stanza.
He would call you out in front of Jesus, Mary, Saint Peter, Joseph and whoever else was present. If you were doing foolywank, he had no problem letting you know the error of your ways and that he would not and could not co-sign on your foolery. He meant it in love, but that did not stop the sting of the truth.
So now that you know and understand his gangsterness, let me tell you about this sweet, tender and endearing flower saying. It is the ultimate challenge to express love and appreciation to folks on the daily. A reminder to let people know how I feel about them and what they mean to me while the blood is still running warm in our veins. It is a reminder that I do not need to wait until someone has passed away to declare my love and their importance to me because I can do this everyday in many, many ways. All that matters is that I do it. I really try my best to let people know exactly what they mean to me. That I love them. Dearly. When my Grandaddy died and when my brother died, we did not buy flowers because we had already given them their flowers while they were living.
Why don't you give someone a flower today? Let their heart savor its precious scent knowing that unlike flowers from the store, these special flowers my Grandaddy was talking about will last forever and ever and ever.